I know we are 4 days into the new year, but 2010 felt like it began to me. After most of the last 2 weeks off, I went back to work today and our routine felt like it was settling back into place. I think New Years is always a great time to reflect - on things that we have accomplished and things we would like to accomplish. I'm not one to set resolutions - I've tried before and by February, I always feel like I've failed myself by falling off of the bandwagon. This year, there are things I want to focus on, but I don't think I want to call them resolutions.
1. Spend more quality time with our little family of four. This is sooo important to me, as I realized during my break from work how fast Lily and Bear are growing up. Weeknights are tough with commuting home from work a lot of days, gymnastics, church activities, and household chores all crammed into a few short hours. I want to try and prepare more of our dinners ahead of time, save laundry and other chores for after 8pm, and spend more of that 3-4 hour window with the 3 people I love more than anything!
2. Be more intentional in my relationships with friends. I have a great circle of close friends, but there are a few others that I've gotten to know that I would love to forge a deeper relationship with. I tend to be more of an introvert, waiting for those around me to extend an invitation, make a phone call, or open up as to what's going on in their lives. This year, I want to stretch myself and be the one to invite a new friend for coffee, send a note to let someone know I'm thinking of them, and do acts of service without expecting anything in return.
3. Learn a new hobby...sewing. I wanted something new to challenge myself with, while giving me an outlet for a little bit of "me" time. Josh gave me a sewing machine for Christmas so now, I want to learn to use it. I've played around on it a few times since getting it, making Lily a small pillow for her room. I'm planning to take a sewing class in January to learn some basics skills to get me started.
4. Strengthen my relationship with God. I spend my hour drive into work most days talking with God, praising Him for the blessings He bestows on me and lifting up the my struggles and those of people close to me, but I don't spend enough time in His word and growing with Him. I want to be more focused with my quiet time, read my Bible more, and try to know and hear Him more.
I'm looking forward to 2010 and the memories we will make this year! Happy New Year!